Skip to main content

Why woman's private parts are abused and consumed?

In Mohanlalganj, a woman was allegedly gang raped, brutally assaulted and murdered. Her private parts were mutilated .yes it is a country where woman is just the object to consume and where rape is the mistake men commit.
This times no writing on regular rhetoric on rape. Today the question is why woman’s body and private organs are abused in public both verbally and physically.
Like nirbhaya,in this case victim’s private parts were assaulted with sharp objects. It is clear, our society can rape woman with eyes. Mentality, masculine organ, finger and any damn thing that can be forced into a woman’s body.
How we reached so far? In ancient times woman’s breasts, vagina, clitoris were worshiped. The power to give birth to new life and later feed it was immensely sacred.
But civilization, as it advanced (degraded), woman’s private parts were made derogatory. All the verbal abuse is in the name of woman’s private parts. Everyday people abuse mothers and sisters. We are still boastful country, which sees woman as honor, however at every nook and corner woman is abused.We don’t treat her parts as natural but as commodity.
I was so enraged and disappointed to see the promo of Humpty Sharma ki dulhania, where in one scene; an erotic female body was inked on cake. Guys cut down the breast part and force it into another man’s mouth. Heights of pervert mindset .men eat breast.
Boyfriends/husbands love their partners, seek their bodies. They cuddle and adore her private parts. Back in life world they abuse clitoris and all those vital parts they cuddle, Fucking other’s mothers and sisters so often.
Why feminism still has not embolden woman so much that ,women all over the world unite and not to permit their partners to have sex or cuddle their bodies until they discontinue the age old habit of abusing woman and her vital parts.
This is all because of much established hubris of masculinity .we are embarrassed and disturbed to see that men don’t think that we exist beyond our vagina, thighs and bosoms. We have brain. We have heart. We are like them.
In so called comedy shows super stars show their upbringing and shallow respect for women, they utter phrases like “maa ki ankh”-double derogatory laughter. Some women also feel cool if they abuse like men. Shame on you .
In the volatile ecosystem created by the web, where words and visuals travel at the light’s pace, this custom of abuse has become grimmer. People in order to embarrass women they write and post pictures that vulgarize their private parts.
To quote the case of the most hated man of the internet Hunter Moore –the founder of revenge porn to website. There he invited male users to reveal sexual and objectifying photographs of their exes or even wives to shame them as slut. His website has now been shut down.
This is what porn games, movies are doing to the society. These are used as weapons to demean woman and her body. These have made women sex dolls with which men play.
Woman come out; stop the bullying on your private parts. Society, please teach male to respect the body of woman. If they cannot respect the body they should not be permitted to touch it, love it, adore it or mate with it.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Extraordinary caregivers

Photo: Chris Hinn "Several years into my practice as a physician at my own private clinic, my father was diagnosed with a chronic illness. I could not afford the treatment or the medicines. I had a hard time coping up with the rising cost. So, hoping that government subsidies will be able to help my situation, I applied to join the public health sector. The whole ordeal really made me reflect my role as a doctor, and the patients I should really be serving,” recalled Dr Rajesh Bhadoria.   Dr Rajesh is the officer in charge at the District Drug Warehouse (DDW) in Badi, Udaipur. He oversees the flag bearer DDW branch of Rajasthan’s free medicine scheme in the region. For the last five years, he and his team have been making sure that benefits of the free medicine scheme reach the people of Udaipur fully. The DDW is located about fifteen kilometers away from the main city of Udaipur, laced with vast and fresh water lakes of Fateh Sagar and Pichola along the way. ...

Nightingale got no prize at the poultry show

Einstien,Twain,Edison were born out of class, before the text proceeds , I would like to say here 'class' doesn’t mean the structure with four walls, one door, two windows, one teacher, books and the pack of chained students. Here class is the niche of brilliance, freedom, discovery, imagination and invention. I wish to have education system that forges humans with brain and not machines with grades. As a student .I always wondered, how one can go about saying two plus two equals to four? Without anyone questioning why? Just because our course book said so. Why in history "dates and events” were asked? When no one taught us the resemblance to the days which we live in. Why for learning anything new, we need old books instead of new ideas? Why make notes in class, when the brain is blank and ink in copy left no hammer on thinking? Why teachers ask us to learn by heart, while it is the mind that is required to do so.? Even Winston Churchill had a dig at his tea...

The hostel question.

‘Humme samman nahi samanata chahiye This phrase echoed in my head, on my way to my hostel, after attending the screening of ‘In her words’ a film by Annie Zaidi on women writing in India and discussion ‘being woman writing woman’. I was accompanied by one of my juniors whose hostel deadline was 9:00 pm. It was around 9:30 pm. No sooner had we got off from the auto than she rushed to her hostel. It’s been a month since Jamia Millia Islamia has been in news for its recent girls’ hostel diktaks. Letter that lead to this, said girls would no longer have their late nights, which girls were permitted before –though the number was laughingly two. A few of my friend stay in Jamia Hostel and seeing them I know how difficult it is to live there. They give you good food, washing machine and security but freedom. What pushed me to type this was my own tryst with university hostel. I am not a resident of jamia Hostel and I am extremely glad about the fact. But this feeling was not the s...