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Fiction,fear and a memoir.



                                                                        Fiction
She was always tied with chains of customs, rules and regulations of home. Whenever she travelled outside; she travelled behind a masculine figure -father or brother-a guardian to guard her movement in public space. Thus no matter how much she moved, chains pulled her back and despite feet in motion, she as a being was a stagnant creature. Then one day she got maroon colored steel body with two wheels, two pedals, two handles, one seat which to her was an ‘incongruous freedom’ instrument- A cycle. Every time she pedaled a chain broke that tied her to old rules of her life. Her body stirred  from head till toe. Hands that till now moved only in kitchen-to make tea, do dishes, rested now on handles –she was controlling her journey. Feet that were restricted within four boundaries of the home, were jauntily cycling down the streets. Head that was always bowed down in obedience, now while sitting on the black colored seat was held high-first in freedom, then in defiance. Thus it was not just her anatomy that was brought in motion by the cycle but her mind and soul stirred too. She was shaken; a big stone was thrown in her stagnant life and it hit her at the right place-ripples were created in her life. It was time for her to start her life as she aspired to live. She started thinking. She started feeling, Sense of identity. As her feet came in contact with pedals of the cycle, her feet felt the sensation like never before, she moved away from archaic lessons given to her. Go straight, Come straight, no longer made sense. Cycle helped latent seeds of rebel inside her sprout and grow into a giant tree. She took different turns; different roads that were hitherto unknown to her. She loitered. She did things that were forbidden. Standing on road and watching the world beyond four walls.  She realized for the first time, Outside world belonged to her as well. It was not smooth run though .Puddles came; she fell, bruised her knees and ankles .She cried but grew up. She knew life would be like this. She needed to learn how to keep herself together. Rains drenched her. Wind moved her. Sun tanned her. Gradually she grew thick skin, but heart was still tender. Her entire body stimulated for the first time, unknowingly liberating feet, liberated her hands and her mind too. Mind that was fed with regular chores and conventional womanly talks started thinking something else. She discovered she has mind of her own. Mind that thinks. Mind that dreams, Heart that loves, Heart that sings. She tried loving all the things that she was not permitted too. Like watching movies, making friends, making male friends. She started noticing the early oestrogen flow-she started noticing signs of youth on her body an in her mind. She Knew, she can love too, she met her lover secretly where the city ended. She decided to make her own choice. Dignity of making own decisions, no matter it fails, but pride would be there that it was her decision. She would not relate herself to big things, but little decisions she took for herself, little things she brought for herself. Little things she did for herself.
As she gained expertise in cycling, she started daring. Some days she set her hands free off the handles and rode cycle, when the cycle lost balance, she would grip the handles tight. She could notice the heart beats fastening and her body panting.
In later years of her life she would replicate this act-she would take risks, would set her life free but after the willy-nilly affairs she would get control over her life.

                                                                           Fear
This fiction would not have come to my mind, had it not been for the fear and self doubt which I am faced with .I feel nothing, I do nothing, I read nothing and I write certain things which are equivalent to nothing. I have become cold, nothing seems to touch me, such is this State of nothingness .Thick carpet of ice has camouflaged my heart, my eyes and ears. I feel nothing, see nothing, and hear nothing. I don’t know whether it accounts for madness or something else. People around me keep talking and I hear nothing-it seems the brown colored wax in my ear has blocked every sensor. My nervous system seems to have collapsed. A lot is happening in politics and campus but it isn’t affecting me .Right wing-fascist forces are becoming strong, I don’t feel the rage. I am emotionless. Pen has become cold too, ink has frozen; no matter how much hard I try it doesn’t spill. Everything seems to have frozen. Certain thoughts come to brain, they generate some fire but a few minutes after, fire becomes cold and I lie or sit or stand disenchanted.  In between all this I watched Ravish’s cycle story that generated a tears in very meager quantity. I wanted to pick my pen and scribble down a memoir, my own journey and my cycle story. The nostalgia crept in, but then fear came to mind, fear that is presently my worst nightmare- that one day I will die as a mere memoir writer who was so obsessed with her life and she could see nothing beyond. The criticism of feminist writing came and haunted me-that women use too much of experience and less of imagination when they write .This is the reason why I want to tear every page of diary that I write these days. This frustration and this state are eating a life out of me. Any way keeping the fear aside I am writing a memoir yet again.
                                                               And a Memoir
It came to my mind, When Manisha’s post scrolled on my timeline. It was Ravish Kumar’s cycle‘s story, one of the most beautiful stories from ‘Ye jo mera Bihar hai’-Ravish’s reportage during Bihar Assembly elections 2015. The story travelled from eyes and ears to heart, heart which is located between left and the right lung and is tilted slightly towards the left lung. This story melted the ice shafts from the heart, time at which I felt nothing, reading and writing nothing. Complete disorientation from the world I live in.
Seeing this story like Manisha, even my eyes brimmed up with tears. I trekked down the memory lane –when I cycled in my hometown .My cycle was the first instrument to take on roads that were quite masculine. Of course my feet were the foremost. My cycle, my freedom. Though I never owned a fancy cycle- with a basket and light weight fibred body -lady bird like .In early 2000s there was craze for these cycles amongst girls. I had blue colored hero steel body which I took from my neighbor who no longer rode it. A Secondhand cycle, but a firsthand freedom, I made sojourns through it untill I came out of school. In graduation Papa got me black maestro which accelerated my freedom and my presence on roads.
Being a solitary kid, I travelled lonely on roads. I hated when someone would want to accompany me while I cycled. This was space of my own, when I talked to myself. I didn’t like talking to people and dealing with people gave me mini heart attacks. I would take different roads and explore. In two tier cities in those times, a woman on road was not a good sign. I took small steps. I instantly did not become rebel and a wanderer. It all happened at its pace. Bringing the items from the list my mother gave. Being eldest child, you play a great role in the family. Those were the times when ideological war with my parents used to be at its peak, I fought with them and when I could do nothing, I took my cycle and travelled on the quite roads and cried my heart out.
At times I would make my younger brother sit on carrier and cycled on the Aliganj roads-Sitapur road-Kursi roads. We ate ice cream, talked and played and made fun of people we did not like.
I cannot describe the feeling that I had when I went to school on cycle for the first time. No rickshaw walla to pick you and drop you home, you decided where to go, how and when to return home.
Cycle also gave wings to new young lovers. In adolescent years when people fall in so called love better it is to call ‘infatuation’ .They took cycle on holidays or after school got over to talk. A few of my friends went cycling, talking, giggling, shying and hiding away. Everything done is concealment, yes we were told good people do not have affairs or roam on roads. Some went to kukrail – a picnic spot and some to places I could not recall. Though they all might have been duped by that casual affair but it gave them lessons for life. When that casual affair broke their heart, they cried on their cycles, on their way to school and home. They all, (including me) glorified love in lives. Thanks to bollywood for this over glorification.
Cycle as Manisha says might be an insignificant in big cities-as they don’t have space and heart for cycles –that’s so old school. People here love cars and bikes, but for small towns cycle was and still their toast of freedom. For some shedding bras and sticking pads, slut marches are acts of rebellion but in a small town cycle gives women first lesson in feminism as they take on roads for the first time without a masculine figure as guard. They fall and are chased by road side Romeos, but they travel. It gives them confidence to be alone and not be frightened.
When I visited Chhattisgarh this June, I saw young women, girls and even older women driving cycles. Roads were occupied by women and their cycles. Yes it is very cost effective plus keeps your body fit and your mind and soul upright. It is eco friendly to count some clichéd and outdated as some might say ‘benefits of riding bicycle.’
In Bihar, Nitish Kumar’s government gave priority to this scheme. Government gave cycles to young girls under the Mukyamatri Balika Cycle Yojana to promote girl education. .http://nitishspeaks.blogspot.in/2010/04/mukhyamantri-balika-cycle-yojna.html.Not only education but, cycle helps in overall mobility too.
Priyanka, a paper vendor from samastipur, Bihar inspired Ravish to go and do the cycle story. This is really progressive-this sight would have been treat for Ravish. I have seen kids, young men and older men selling newspapers but not a girl as yet. I remember one boy in my colony started selling newspaper because his father passed away and his sister started teaching to eke out their living. Recently when I went back home my mother told me about a young kid who comes to inquire about me ‘ aaki beti aa gayi’? I asked the reason .She told me ‘ever since you left home newspapers and magazines subscriptions have reduced. So he comes to ask whether you have arrived, so that he can give bunch of newspapers-you bought’. Cycle is the tender, cost effective mode of transport. In India cycle is not a sport. It is again associated with class .Cycle is for only who cannot afford petrol and those can afford petrol they would never ride on bicyle.In my country everything comes with class prejudice.

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